How to Introduce the Concept of Wedding Cash Registries to Wedding Guests

Wedding cash registries are growing in popularity, yet there are varying opinions on the etiquette of how to establish one. While the concept of the wedding wishing well is becoming more common, the idea of asking for money – instead of gift items typically found on a wedding registry – is still fairly new, and to some, inappropriate.

A wedding wish registry is a specific type of cash gift registry that places the focus not on cash gifts, but on making a difference in the life of the new couple. A wedding wish registry helps guests to celebrate the couple’s values, lifestyle, personalities, hopes, dreams and everything that makes the couple unique and special.

When establishing a wedding wish registry, be sure to:

Let family and friends know what the money will be used for.

Share your plans to fulfill your sense of adventure with an around-the-world plane ticket, or to invest in furniture and decor to design a nursery for your first child. Your wedding guests will be excited to play a significant role in your happiness, and they’ll be happy to contribute to your bridal cash registry in order to make your wedding wish come true.

Let guests in on the dream.

Share your passions, dreams and desires with your wedding guests. Let them in on what you want most in the near or distant future, and how they can help make your wedding wishes and dreams a reality. Your loved ones want the best for you, and will be excited to help grant your most meaningful wedding wishes through your wedding wish registry.

Show your appreciation.

After the wedding, express your heartfelt thanks for your guests’ cash wedding gifts, and let them know how much their contribution to your cash gift registry meant to you. If you used your wedding gift registry to purchase a big-ticket item such as a house or a car, or to venture on the trip of a lifetime, send your guests a photo to share with them how they helped make your wedding registry dreams a reality.

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